User blog comment:Drew-beauty of aphrodite/WHAT SHOULD I DO?/@comment-3221594-20110301155955

1. As a fellow child of the love goddess, let me share some big brotherly advice...Mom does not like straight forward, happily ever after types of love lives. There needs to be some drama! I can't say if this is the right guy for you or if you are meant for someone else, but the ups and downs of love are right ion line with what is to be expected.

2. If he is an Ares, as you mentioned elsewhere, being nicer to him may actually be a turn off. Ares personalities want strong, assertive persoanlities around them.

3. As for maintaining friendship after the awkwardness of this situation. If he is a true friend, it will blow over. It will just take time. If he is not interested in even still being friends, then he is not the right person for you on many levels and you need to let him go and move on.