User blog:LemonFairy/Harry or Neville -- who has it worst?

I ask the question in the title because I'm currently in the middle of a debate with Dem and she's taken Harry's time. I'm full-throttle convinced Nev had it way worse if you look at it from any real standpoint aside from Weight On His Shoulders, but I'd like to hear what other people have to say too. The topic has been exhausted in the HP comm, though, so I'm taking it here. XP

Thoughts?